Why Your Neurodivergent Child Talks Non-Stop About One Topic – And How to Respond with Empathy

Understanding Info-Dumping in Neurodivergent Children

If your neurodivergent child talks non-stop about one subject, you may be witnessing a common communication style known as info-dumping. This is especially prevalent among autistic children or young people with ADHD who are verbal, or who use AAC (augmentative and alternative communication) systems fluently.

Info-dumping is when a child shares large amounts of highly detailed information about a specific interest in one go. Imagine meeting someone who shares your favourite topic – you both get excited, talk quickly, and dive deep into every detail. For many Neurodivergent children, this is their natural and authentic way of connecting.

Why Does My Child Info-Dump?

Neurodivergent children often info-dump with people they trust. It can be their way of bonding, expressing themselves, or even regulating emotions.

Common reasons for info-dumping include:

• Feeling proud of their specialised knowledge

• Experiencing relaxation and flow by talking about a familiar subject

• Creating emotional connection with others through shared interests

How to Respond to Info-Dumping Positively

When possible, the best way to respond is to listen with interest and try to appreciate your child’s enthusiasm. Not only will you learn more about their passions, but also about how they view the world.

However, life is busy - and there are times when you simply can’t listen in full. Perhaps you need to leave for work, manage siblings, or focus on something urgent.

In those moments, it’s okay to set gentle, clear boundaries like:

• “I love hearing about dinosaurs, but I need to leave soon. Can we pick this up after dinner?”

• “Let’s give your sister a turn to speak. We all need space to share our thoughts.”

• “I’ve got to make a phone call in ten minutes - can we chat until then and pause when the timer goes off?”

Balancing Boundaries with Empathy

While setting boundaries around info-dumping is sometimes necessary, it’s important not to make this the default response. Info-dumping is a valid and meaningful form of communication for many neurodivergent individuals and should be honoured as such.

Giving time and space for this communication fosters trust, confidence, and a deeper parent-child connection.

Support for Neurodivergent Communication at bMindful Psychology

If you’re navigating the challenges of supporting a neurodivergent child, we’re here to help.

At bMindful Psychology, we offer:

• Specialist Neurodivergent assessments

• Speech and Language Therapy

• Individualised support for children and families

• Practical guidance on managing and responding to neurodivergent communication styles

Contact our Child Assessment Specialist’s today to learn how we can support your child’s communication and emotional wellbeing.

Call: 0161 510 0111

Email: hello@bmindfulpsychology.co.uk